The Lunch Box Battle – Strategies from the Trenches
Lunch is a difficult meal to plan. Then packing it for your kids to eat when you aren’t there can be even harder. You want it to be quick, but you also want it to fill and sustain them until dinner time. You want it to be healthy, but you also want them to enjoy it. Add in the appetites of these picky, and sometimes willful little people, and you might just start resorting to PB&J every day! What is a parent to do? In honor of back to school season (that “most wonderful time of the year”), we wanted to put all of our best tips, resources, and recipes in one place to keep kids happy and healthy and parents sane. Here are some of the methods and strategies we have found work:
- Variety! Give them lots of healthy choices and let them pick what they want. For example, “Would you like carrot or apple slices for your snack?” This way they still feel like they have control, but you are guiding them toward making healthy choices. Some of the best lunches are served with small portions of all the things in the fridge! For example, lunch meat, cheese, crackers, cut up fruit and veggies, nuts, or maybe a few bits of leftover pasta, rice, meat, etc. Kids love having so many options!
- Make it look pretty. Now hear us out before you run to Pinterest for creative ideas. We know you “ain’t got time for that.” However if you can arrange things nicely on the plate, use lots of colors, add a fun napkin or note in the lunch box, it can go a long way. And maybe if you have crazy amounts of time and creative juices, you can try a bento-style lunchbox with fun shapes and themes.
- You choose WHAT kids eat. They choose HOW much to eat. Kids know when they are full. They haven’t been conditioned to over or under eat the way we as adults have. Their appetites ebb and flow with growth rates, activity levels, and different amounts of sleep. Make a rule that they have to eat something that you choose, but they can decide how many bites.
- The “No Thank You Bite” Rule is one many of us use for trying new foods. You can’t say “no thank you” until you have tried at least one bite. This encourages good manners and exposes kids to new foods while still giving them some independence. Several OAMM staffers have even used this successfully with children who have sensory issues.
- Get your kids involved in cooking. There are many ways to do this, i.e. talk with them or teach them where food comes from by growing it or visiting a farm, let kids do age appropriate kitchen tasks, let them help set the table, allow kids to help with the meal plan or assembling lunch boxes, or take them grocery shopping.
- Invoke the help of a favorite book or TV character such as Sam I Am or Daniel Tiger. Be prepared to do some rhyming and singing to make this work. Several of us have enjoyed reading and cooking from the book Eat Like a Dinosaur with our Paleo and GF kiddos.
- Model good habits on your own plate. My kids ALWAYS want what is on my plate! Let them steal some. Encourage them to be “strong like daddy” or “healthy like mommy.” Sometimes just joking with the kids and telling them they can’t eat something makes them laugh and try it!
- Put new foods on a separate plate or bowl. Mindy gave this suggestion for children with sensory issues, but it could work for others too. Sometimes just keeping the new food away from the others keeps everyone calm enough to get out of their comfort zone.
- Treats in moderation. Moderation means not every day. Special means it is on occasion. You can plan special treats as a family like an ice cream night. Or let your kids earn it by adding stickers to a chart when they try new things. We are not talking bribery or bargaining as kids will take advantage of that super fast! Just something to let them know treats are ok sometimes and you’re not a total meanie.
- Above All – Keep Calm! Make it a big deal, but don’t make it a big deal. Let your kids know eating healthy food is important and valued. Teach them what healthy eating and moderation looks like (especially by example.) But don’t turn it into a battle of the wills. Let this be something you work together on, not something which causes division.
Hang in there – we are with you. Now, what exactly are you supposed to put on your kids’ plates? Freezer cooking meals for your children obviously saves time, but you can also feel good about knowing exactly which ingredients are going into their meals. We even have some Whole Foods makeovers for some of our recipes, like our popular Pizza Spirals.
- Back to School Mini Menu January 2014 – Based on the 31 Back to School Freezer Meals post. You can use Swappable to easily customize this mini to include the meals your family likes best. You can even let them help choose.
- Back to School Mini Menu August 2013
- Snack Mini June 2014 – Perfect for the lunchbox or after school.
- Cooler Friendly Mini Menu June 2014 – Food that travels well. Great for older children and working parents.
- Paleo Kids Mini Menu September 2013 – Perfect for the GF or Paleo family.
- Healthy Breakfast on the Go Mini Menu July 2013 – Don’t forget the first meal of the day!
- Toddler Mini Menu March 2013 – Designed to be easy for toddlers to pick up and eat, but fun finger foods for kids of all ages!
- Toddler Mini Menu June 2012 – Again, friendly for kids of all ages despite the name.